Top parenting coach shares how to teach sons to choose the right friends at every age
Having good friends is a blessing. They are the ones who support, respect and bring the best out of you. For parents, especially those raising sons, one of the biggest concerns is the kind of friendship their child forms.Top parenting coach Wendy Ologe says, the goal of parenting is not to raise a child who simply finds good friends, but to raise one who can recognize healthy friendships. Since the meaning of friendship changes from childhood to adulthood, so does the guidance children need. Heres what parents need to teach sons so they choose the right friends at every age. Age 3 to 6Friendship should be full of kindness and safety. At this age, friendship is simple. According to the parenting expert, at this age, parents should teach children three things: A friend is someone who is kind, not someone who is loud, popular, or dominant.Friends do not hit, bully, hurt, or take things without asking.It is okay to move away from someone who makes you feel unsafe, scared, or sad.Age 7 to 10 This is where influence begins. As children grow older, friends start playing a bigger role in shaping their behaviour. They begin comparing themselves with others, following group habits, and seeking acceptance. At this age, teach your child these four things: Not everyone who plays with you is someone who helps you grow.Good friends encourage you to make better choices, not push you toward disrespectful behaviour.If you constantly get into trouble because of someone, that friendship needs to be questioned.Friends should respect teachers, rules, and boundaries.Age 11 to 13This is where friendship starts forming identity.The pre-teen years can be challenging because the need to belong becomes stronger. Children may start changing their behaviour to fit in or gain approval.At this stage, parents can help sons understand:You do not have to change who you are to be accepted.Being popular is not the same as having good character.Friends can influence your confidence, values, and decisions.Pay attention to: Do I like the person I become around this friend?Age 14 to 17Friendships can shape the direction of life.Teenage years bring greater independence. Friend groups can influence habits, communication style, priorities, and even future decisions.Parents can guide teenagers to understand:Friends influence your habits, language, discipline, and mindset.The people around you often shape the direction you move in.Setting boundaries is important, even with long-term friends.It is okay to outgrow friendships respectfully.Age 18 and above In adulthood, friendships become alignment.As young adults step into the world, they begin choosing relationships based on their own values and goals.Parents can encourage them to:Choose friends who align with their purpose, not just their comfort.Remember that the people you spend the most time with can influence your mindset and lifestyle.Build friendships that bring growth, respect, and honesty.Never compromise integrity for acceptance.Teaching Sons About Friendship Is Teaching Them About LifeThe friends children choose can influence their confidence, behaviour, values, and future. But the ultimate goal is not to pick their friends for them, it is to raise children who can recognise healthy relationships on their own.When boys learn kindness in childhood, awareness in adolescence, and wisdom in adulthood, they carry a lifelong ability to choose friendships that support who they want to become.
10 ways to stop overthinking, as per psychology
Overthinking is like a hamster wheel in your brain. It happily replays every awkward thing you said years ago, projects catastrophic worst-case scenarios for next week, and stretches minor daily choices into agonising ordeals.Lets be real: you cant just flip a switch and turn your brain off. But you can stop it from hijacking your peace of mind. Here is a psychologically grounded guide to breaking the loop and reclaiming your mental bandwidth.
How to visit Kailash Mansarovar: Routes, permits, costs, best time to visit and key questions to ask
For countless pilgrims and avid travellers, making the trek to Kailash Mansarovar is vastly more profound than a standard holiday. Its an unforgettable blend of deep spirituality, raw adventure, stunning scenery, and serious physical endurance. Revered across Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, and the Bon religion, Mount Kailash stands as one of the most sacred peaks on Earth, whilst the neighbouring Lake Mansarovar carries immense spiritual weight.
Connaught Place, Delhi's iconic commercial hub, has transformed from a British-era shopping arcade to a prime real estate destination. Its central location, innovative design, and limited supply have driven high rentals and property values. Metro connectivity further boosted its status, making it a coveted address for businesses and retailers alike, demonstrating enduring commercial success.
Jackie Shroff emphasizes the importance of physical affection and emotional connection in parenting, sharing how he cherishes hugs with his children. He believes a peaceful home environment and mutual understanding are crucial for raising happy children. Shroff's core parenting philosophy centers on actively listening to children, ensuring they feel heard and valued.
Does a window seat on a flight expose you to more radiation? Heres what studies say
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Renting a house in India in 2026? 7 new rules every tenant must know
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A 23-year-old from Uttar Pradesh, Khushboo, is gaining attention for her unique Mumbai journey. Working as a Swiggy delivery partner by day, she dedicates nights to studying for the UP Police exam. Unlike many seeking a new life, Khushboo's ambition is to return to her village in uniform, serving her community.
Beyond Buland Darwaza: Discover the mysterious Hiran Minar at Fatehpur Sikri
When most people head over to Fatehpur Sikri, theyre usually busy gazing at the grand palaces, the massive Buland Darwaza, or the stunning marble tomb of Sheikh Salim Chishti. But tucked slightly off the main tourist drag sits one of the site's most curious structures, the Hiran Minar.
A Kolkata street interaction between an Australian tourist and a local man, captured in a viral video, has ignited a fierce online debate. While some condemn the man's persistent advances, others criticize the tourist's generalizing caption. The incident highlights the complexities of viral content, cultural context, and online narratives, leaving viewers divided.
If black is your favourite colour to wear, psychology says there's a reason
Black has long held a unique place in human culture. It's the colour of elegance and authority. It's worn at funerals and fashion weeks. Judges wear it. Luxury brands love it. So do rock stars, artists and CEOs. Here's what psychology says about it.
Alice Walker's quote, 'Thank you is the best prayer,' emphasizes gratitude's power beyond mere courtesy. It highlights how expressing thanks fosters humility, deepens understanding of life's blessings, and shifts focus from scarcity to abundance. This simple act encourages appreciation for present moments and the interconnectedness of our experiences.
People with financial stability are happier, says psychology
Financial stability, not just wealth, significantly reduces stress and improves daily happiness by covering basic needs. While money can't buy genuine joy, it provides the foundation for pursuing meaningful relationships, hobbies, and future plans, ultimately contributing to a more content life.
5 luxury residential regions in Greater Noida attracting premium homebuyers
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From Maasai Villages to Dhow Cruises: 6 cultural experiences every traveller must have in Kenya
Mention Kenya, and most people immediately picture vast savannahs, safari vehicles, and the Great Migration. While those experiences absolutely deserve their legendary status, they tell only part of the story.
Personality test: Pick a lollipop to uncover your hidden strengths and weaknesses
This visual test reveals subconscious preferences, suggesting that your immediate choice of a lollipop indicates your core worldview. Whether you're a fast-paced doer, a nurturing peacemaker, or a calm strategist, your selection highlights your natural strengths and areas for personal growth.
A child showing anger or tantrums can be frustrating for parents. While anger is a natural emotion, there are some acceptable ways to react and some unbearable. For parents, the confusion arises when they just dont understand how to react. Is strict discipline or repeated instructions the solution? From what we got to know from parents, it rarely works.But many parents come up with interesting solutions to handle their little ones big emotions. Here are some parents sharing the techniques that helped them handle their childrens anger better:I started controlling my own reactions. Laxmi M, a mother of two from Haldwani, says she noticed a pattern whenever her children, aged 13 and 11 got angry. I noticed that when I raised my voice during my childrens anger, the situation only became worse. Soon I realised that my children werent learning calmness because I wasnt showing it, she says.Since the realization hit me, I began lowering my voice, speaking slowly, and taking a few seconds before responding whenever either of my children got angry or showed a tantrum.Laxmis approach worked because she understood that children learn more from observing their parents than they learn from nagging.Me and my husband started reacting calmly to my sons anger.Radha U, a mother of three living in Delhi, recalls that her eldest son, aged 17, used to get extremely upset whenever he couldnt do well in something. In the past Radha and her husband used to get worked up with their sons unbearable anger. But now, as she says, We started sitting next to him and calmly asking what happened? She says soon after they started reacting calmly, their sons actions also changed. Now instead of getting angry, he comes up to her or his dad and talks about the things that bother him.I taught both my daughters a special anger control technique.Ananya, mother of two lovely daughters, says, When my daughters were younger, their anger would often come out as shouting, crying, or refusing to listen. She says that she realised that simply telling them to control their anger wont help. Ananya knew that the solution wont come from talking and shouting. So, I started teaching them a small technique- pause before reacting. Whenever they felt angry, I encouraged them to stop, take a few deep breaths, and count slowly before saying or doing anything. Ananya says over time both her daughters began using this technique on their own.I started listening to my daughter instead of nagging her.My daughter would often get angry over small things not getting what she wanted, being told no, or having to stop an activity she enjoyed. Earlier, I would immediately start nagging her, says Jyoti P, mother of a 7-year-old girl. She noticed that it only worsened things. I changed my approach and started listening first. Sometimes she just wanted to feel heard. Jyoti adds.Jyotis approach worked because there are times when children dont want to hear, but want to be heard.We started investing our sons anger into physical activity.Rahul, father of 9-year-old Abhay, says My son has always been very energetic, and when he felt frustrated, that energy often came out as anger. We started channeling his anger into physical activities like running, cycling, playing football, and even simple exercises at home, and trust me, it helped, he says. Rahul says with a hint of laughter that now his son Abhay sometimes tells them, I need to play for a while because Im feeling angry.
Researchers discovered a vast whale graveyard in the Indian Ocean's Diamantina Zone, containing 476 fossil cetaceans and five modern whale-fall communities. This site, active for at least 5.3 million years, provides a unique window into deep-sea ecosystems and carbon sequestration, with many species potentially new to science.
How to recognize manipulation: 5 life skills parents must teach children
Influence is a powerful tool. While good influence can take someone so far in life, bad or unhealthy influence, on the other hand, can lead to negative consequences. When someone tries to put a wrong influence, its called manipulation. Manipulation can be subtle. Even many adults fail to recognize it at times. It is because manipulation doesnt look like that the person is putting obvious pressure. Sometimes manipulation is disguised as friendship, guilt or urgency. This is why helping children recognize manipulative behavior from a young age is an important responsibility. Here are five important lessons parents can teach:Urgency is a warning sign Manipulation often begins with a sense of urgency. It may sound like decide now or dont think too much, but such phrases put pressure to react quickly instead of thinking clearly about a situation. Teach your child that they never have to make an important decision when they feel rushed. A safe person will respect their need for time, while someone trying to control them may push them to answer immediately. Teach kids to firmly reply, I need time to think. Learning to pause before responding is a powerful thing one can do. Recognize the feelings behind the wordsManipulation is not always easy to spot. Sometimes the words may sound harmless, but the feeling behind them can tell children something is wrong. Teach children that if they feel pressured to agree, guilty for saying no or confused about what they really want, then they dont have to ignore the discomfort. Just because someone is friendly or sounds convincing, doesnt mean their intentions are good. This isnt about making children doubt everyone, its about teaching them that their feelings are important signals. Kindness is not the same as giving in Kindness is a super power, and children are often taught to be kind. However, the kindest children are often the most targeted. This is why children need to understand that kindness does not mean always agreeing with others. Manipulative people may try to take advantage of a child's kindness and say, Youll do it for me, right? In these situations, a child who always remains kind may feel guilty to say no and thus may even end up in unwanted situations. Make it clear to children that kindness has limits. Teach them what real no sound likeFor many children, saying No comes with a feeling of disappointing others or appearing rude. They may soften their answer, over-explain, or agree to things they are uncomfortable with just to keep someone happy. Teach your child that a clear boundary does not need a long explanation or an apology. No long explanations, no apologies, and no maybe. Teach them that No means No. A confident no can sound like, No, Im not doing that.Disappointing someone is not the same as hurting them Many children fear saying no because they dont want to upset anyone. They feel that disappointing someone is wrong. Manipulators often say phrases like, If you really cared about me, you would do it. but children must understand that disappointing others is sometimes about protecting their own boundaries. Teach children that they are allowed to make respectful choices that feel right to them, even if someone else doesnt like those choices.Children need to understand that healthy relationships feel respectful Children often learn about relationships by observing the people around them. While they are taught to be friendly, sharing, and caring, they also need to understand what respect looks like in a relationship. A healthy relationship does not depend on fear, guilt, pressure, or making someone feel responsible for another persons happiness. A good friend, family member, or trusted person will listen, respect boundaries, and accept when someone says no. Helping children recognize respect early teaches them an important lesson: kindness should feel safe, not stressful. This understanding helps them build healthier friendships and protect themselves from unhealthy influence as they grow.
England captain Harry Kane's enduring love story with childhood sweetheart Katie Goodland, beginning at primary school, is a heartwarming tale amidst the FIFA World Cup 2026. Their journey from school friends to parents of four highlights a grounded partnership that thrives despite fame's pressures, proving true love can conquer all.
A poignant video of a young girl questioning her deceased father's alcohol addiction has gone viral. Her innocent words reveal the deep pain and confusion children experience when a parent's addiction leads to loss. The video resonates with many who have faced similar tragedies. It underscores the silent burden carried by children and the profound impact of parental absence.
Mae Jemison, the first African American woman in space, inspires with her philosophy of not limiting oneself or others due to imagination. Her journey exemplifies how determination and self-belief overcome doubts, encouraging everyone to pursue their passions and embrace limitless possibilities.
Top 10 safest countries in the world in 2026; what travellers should know
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Narcissism is often misunderstood, but clinical psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula , a leading expert on the subject, makes it clear: Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a distinct pattern, not just occasional arrogance. On the Finding Mastery YouTube channel, she outlined five glaring signs you must spot consistently. Equally important, she explained how to protect your peace without trying to fix someone who cant change. Here are the five signs of NPD and three practical ways to deal with a narcissist, so you can stay grounded and emotionally safe.
10 beautiful baby girl names inspired by spring flowers
Spring is a season of renewal, colour and hope. As gardens awaken from winter and flowers begin to bloom, nature offers some of the most beautiful inspirations for baby names loved by parents around the world. Flower-inspired names are timeless because they carry meanings of beauty, resilience, grace and new beginnings. Whether you're searching for a name rooted in nature or simply love the charm of spring blossoms, these floral baby girl names are filled with symbolism and elegance, making them truly special for your little one. Below are ten such beautiful baby girl names. Lets take a look!
If a child wakes up at night, its a mothers responsibility: Rubina Dilaiks remarks spark debate
Rubina Dilaik's recent comments on nighttime parenting responsibilities, suggesting mothers attend to waking children while fathers sleep, have ignited a widespread social media debate. The discussion centers on traditional gender roles, shared parenting, and the expectations placed upon mothers and fathers in modern families.
What is an Angel Shot? The secret code women use to ask for help at bars
An Angel Shot is a discreet safety signal used in bars and restaurants by individuals feeling unsafe. Staff trained to recognize this code respond by offering practical assistance, such as escorting patrons to their cars or calling for transportation. This initiative highlights businesses prioritizing public safety and providing a vital tool for those needing help discreetly.
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A traveler's visit to Kamakhya Temple took a disturbing turn when a woman stealthily cut a lock of her hair in the crowded market. The incident, witnessed by a shopkeeper, left the author shaken and questioning the woman's motives, highlighting the unexpected encounters that can occur at busy pilgrimage sites.
This common fruit has more protein than most people realise and it's probably in your kitchen
Guava is a common fruit often overlooked for its nutritional benefits. It provides a good source of protein, fibre, vitamin C, and potassium. Guava is versatile and can be enjoyed fresh, in salads, smoothies, or as juice. This fruit is an affordable and accessible way to boost daily nutrient intake. Guava is a smart addition to any diet.
Entering ancient temples can trigger uncontrollable emotions and tears, even without a clear reason. This phenomenon is attributed to the temples' architecture and energy, designed to affect the mind and body. These sacred spaces may also activate 'Asht Satvik Bhav,' eight involuntary bodily reactions that manifest during intense devotion or spiritual experiences.
8 most expensive foods in India and why they are priced so high
They appear on fine-dining menus, in kitchens, and occasionally in festive showpieces that are built to impress before they are tasted. Here are eight of the most expensive foods associated with Indias luxury table, with their calorie counts at a glance.
The worlds largest mammal migration happens in the sky; here's all you need to know
Zambia's Kasanka National Park hosts Africa's largest mammal migration, with 10-15 million straw-coloured fruit bats darkening the skies annually. These bats, vital seed dispersers, travel vast distances, drawn by seasonal fruit. Witnessing this spectacular, under-the-radar phenomenon offers a unique, intimate wildlife experience, crucial for conservation efforts.
Why your brain assumes the worst in people and why its wrong, as per psychology
New research reveals we often overestimate others' dishonesty, with most people acting honestly even when given the chance to cheat anonymously. This pervasive suspicion can lead to cynicism and support for strict oversight. Correcting these misperceptions can foster greater trust and healthier relationships, suggesting our pessimism might be unwarranted.
Calling mothers superheroes is societys way of glorifying their exhaustion, says Genelia DSouza
Genelia DSouza's viral quote, Society calls mothers superheroes to glorify their exhaustion instead of easing their burden, sparks a vital conversation. It challenges the pressure on mothers, advocating for practical support over myth-making. The actor emphasizes honesty and sustainability in parenting, urging a shift from celebrating endurance to demanding societal accountability and shared responsibility for a healthier approach.
Ghee, gripe water and kajal: Which baby home remedies are safe and which aren't? Experts decode
From age-old traditions to modern parenting choices, many families continue to rely on home remedies for babies. But are they always safe? Experts explain what parents should know before using some of the most common home remedies on infants: ghee, gripe water and kajal.
If you love animals, these 5 anime deserve a spot on your watchlist
If you love animals, these 5 anime deserve a spot on your watchlist
Prepare for a celestial spectacle as the Moon aligns with three planets this week, offering a rare evening viewing opportunity. On June 17th, Indians can witness the slender crescent Moon near the bright planet Venus, with a chance for a lunar occultation of Venus. This is the prime time to observe these planets before Jupiter fades from view.
Success quote of the day by Lionel Messi: You can overcome anything, if and only if you...
If you love something enough, you can overcome anything. Lionel MessiFirst off, Lionel Messis quote is simple and straight from the heart. But its also quietly powerful, born of a life spent struggling with setbacks, high expectations and the constant grind of elite sport. Its not poetic; its a practical formula of motivation psychology. Love, for a craft, a goal, a person, or an ideal, supplies the emotional fuel that keeps you moving when obstacles look insurmountable. Heres what Messis quote really means, why love can be the most reliable form of resilience, and how to turn that devotion into steady, sustainable progress.
7 interior design trends driving demand in residential properties
Interior design has become a key factor in shaping residential real estate demand. Todays homebuyers are influenced not only by location and price but also by how functional, modern and aesthetically pleasing a home feels. Well-designed interiors can significantly enhance property value, improve buyer interest and speed up sales in competitive markets. Below are seven major interior design trends currently driving demand in residential properties:
Quote of the day by Leonardo da Vinci: The painter has the Universe in his mind and hands
Leonardo da Vinci believed painters hold the universe in their minds and hands, transforming imagination into tangible art. This profound connection between thought and craft, where the mind contains reality and the hand releases it, remains vital today. Even with AI, the physical effort to manifest ideas is crucial, highlighting that inspiration alone is only half the creative process.
We often cling tightly to life's aspects, mistaking attachment for love. However, true strength lies in detachment, as highlighted by Jay Shetty. This means engaging fully with life, relationships, and goals without letting them control your inner peace. It's about appreciating everything as borrowed, not owned, fostering genuine resilience.
5 global co-stars who became life partners
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Paulo Coelho's quote highlights that unavoidable troubles enter our lives for a reason, offering profound insights into self-discovery and growth. These challenges, though painful, serve as critical turning points, teaching resilience and revealing hidden strengths. By embracing adversity with patience, we gain wisdom and emerge stronger, trusting the journey.
A childs learning journey is often associated with worksheets of letter tracing or activity books. Building the foundation for academics certainly does not feel easy and many parents ponder whether theyre doing enough. But the good thing is that experts believe that early years are not about rushing into formal academics, they are about building the foundation that makes future learning easier and more meaningful.Tabitha Paige, a speech therapist and mother of four, says instead of focusing only on worksheets, there are some activities that can support a preschool childs overall growth. Here are six things parents of preschool children should have their kids do:
Jewish proverb of the day: It is better to be the tail of the lion than...
Discover how your waiting style reveals your inner self. A simple image choice test, shared by Dasha Takisho, highlights whether you lean towards control, stability, avoidance, independence, emotional protection, or inner tension during uncertain times. Each result offers gentle insights and practical growth prompts to navigate stillness more effectively and understand your coping mechanisms.
Kylian Mbapps rumoured girlfriend revealed? Meet Spanish star Ester Expsito
Spanish actress Ester Expsito and French football star Kylian Mbapp have fueled romance rumors with numerous public sightings, including a kiss captured on camera. While neither has confirmed a relationship, their frequent appearances together have intensified public curiosity and social media chatter, highlighting the challenges of privacy for high-profile figures.
Marilyn Monroe's wisdom suggests life's challenges are catalysts for growth. She believed setbacks teach us to let go, appreciate good times, and trust ourselves after experiencing deception. Ultimately, even good things falling apart can pave the way for better opportunities to emerge.
10 subtle signs you have high emotional intelligence
Emotional intelligence (EQ) is one of those buzzwords that gets thrown around a lot, but what does it actually look like in the real world?First of all, lets bust a myth: having a high EQ doesnt mean youre a total saint or a passive pushover. Its simply about self-awareness, self-control, and knowing how to read a room. Its the ability to feel a massive wave of emotion but choose exactly how you want to act on it.Think of EQ as a muscle rather than a fixed trait. Here are ten signs that your emotional intelligence is firing on all cylinders.
7 proven advantages of eating beetroot daily, and who should consider not eating it
Can snakes really fly? 5 surprising facts about flying snakes
Astonishingly, flying snakes, found in South and Southeast Asia, defy expectations by gliding between trees. These reptiles, not truly flying, flatten their bodies mid-air and use an S-shaped motion for controlled aerial travel. Spending most of their lives in trees, these five species showcase nature's incredible adaptations, leaving observers amazed by their airborne feats.
Sonam Kapoor's home is all about old money charm and quiet luxury: Art inspirations to take away
Sonam Kapoor's home artfully blends Indian heritage with European charm, transforming rooms into personal stories. From statement chandeliers to hand-painted de Gournay wallpaper celebrating Indian landscapes, her space showcases a curated collection of contemporary Indian art and vintage European accents, creating a warm and inviting atmosphere.
An optical illusion personality test, shared by Dasha Takisho, reveals potential iggest weaknesses based on what you see first: a skull, fence, boat, or bound person. Each image offers a gentle reflection on overthinking, emotional walls, unrealistic expectations, or inner conflict, prompting self-awareness about personal patterns.
As parents, few things are more scary than watching your child drift towards the wrong path. Whether it's substance abuse, unhealthy friendships or disrespectful behaviour many parents today are struggling with a question: How do we guide children in a world filled with distractions and temptations?A recent interaction shared by spiritual leader Premanand Maharaj has struck a chord with many families. He recalled a conversation with a young boy who told him something heartbreaking. I got trapped in alcohol from Class 9. Now that I am in Class 12, I sometimes feel like destroying myself, the boy said. What Premanand Maharaj said next is what has left many people wondering. This is not the story of one child. Thousands of children are facing the same situation today.Why are so many children falling into harmful habits?Premanand Maharaj believes a big part of the problem is that values are quietly disappearing from homes. If parents themselves do not understand spiritual values, what will they teach their children? he asked. He isn't talking about religion here. He's talking about simple things: self-control, knowing right from wrong, respecting others. With phones, social media and peer pressure all competing for a child's attention, these basics are getting lost.When correcting a child becomes controversialHere's something many teachers and older parents will relate to. Maharaj pointed out that discipline has become a touchy subject. Today, if a teacher tries to discipline a child, parents often oppose the teacher, he said. Children need love, yes. But they also need boundaries. When every correction feels like an attack, kids never really learn to take responsibility for their actions.A growing lack of respect at homeAnother thing Premanand Maharaj noted is the way some children speak to their own parents.He said that many young children have started speaking to elders in a dismissive or disrespectful way. It's not about the occasional argument. It's about a pattern. And when that pattern sets in early, it's often a sign of something deeper going on.The one solution he believes can helpWhile discussing the challenges facing today's generation, Premanand kept coming back to the same point: spirituality. The condition of society and the younger generation is worsening because they have moved away from spirituality. This can be corrected only through spirituality, he said.Now, that doesn't have to mean temple visits or prayers every morning (though it can). For many families, it simply means teaching children gratitude, honesty, compassion and the ability to pause before making a bad decision. Giving them an inner sense of right and wrong, something that works even when no one is watching.What parents can take away from thisChildren need more than just good marks. They also need values, guidance, meaningful conversations, and role models in the form of their parents at home. It is obvious that you can't control every person your child meets or every video they watch. But creating an environment built on trust, discipline, respect, and strong values can go a long way in helping children make better choices.Because at the end of the day, good parenting isn't just about keeping kids away from bad habits. It's about making sure they have the strength to walk away from those habits on their own.
Hyderabad cab driver says he quit Amazon to follow his passion; viral video wins hearts
A content creator's video highlights a former Amazon employee who chose to become a ride-share driver, finding joy and fulfillment in his passion. The driver expressed his love for meeting diverse people and exploring the city, inspiring many social media users who resonated with his decision to prioritize happiness over societal pressure.
10 most colourful snakes in the world and where to spot them in the wild
There is no doubt that snakes are among the most feared species on Earth. There is so much more to know about these slithering creatures. Some are known for their venom, some for their length and then there are some known for their beautiful natural skin colour.
Experts urge parents to shift focus in child safety, emphasizing consent and respect for boys alongside protection for girls. This proactive approach teaches sons to respect boundaries and bodily autonomy, preventing them from becoming perpetrators. Clear, age-appropriate guidance on emotional control and acceptable behavior is crucial for all children, fostering empathy and understanding.
Which countries are home to the worlds deadliest Taipan Snakes?
The inland taipan is among the most dangerous snakes in the world and has venom that no other reptile can certainly match for being the most venomous snake globally.It is famously known as the fierce snake, whose venom measures drop for drop, and nothing else comes close. A single bite delivers enough toxin to kill hundreds of thousands of mice, and that venom works quickly enough to shut down the nervous system and the blood's ability to clot.Given these characteristics, one might expect frequent encounters with these four dangerous venomous creatures, but contrary to its reputation, the inland taipan is shy, secretive, and strangely reluctant to use the weapon it carries. It would far rather slip away than strike, and people who share its territory can go a lifetime without ever seeing one.So what is this snake, really, and what creatures are actually home to it?
Vidarbha batter Bharti Fulmali, known as 'Vidarbha's Lady Gayle' for her powerful hitting, has overcome years of online abuse targeting her appearance to earn a spot in India's World Cup squad. Despite facing constant personal criticism, she remained focused on her training and career, demonstrating resilience in the face of negativity.
8 most unusual structures around the world that challenge conventional building design
Buildings all over the world are not confined to linear forms or traditional designs. Some buildings exceed imagination and derive their inspiration from ordinary items, abstract concepts, and artistry. The following buildings do not just function as normal buildings; rather, they serve to inspire and awe by virtue of their distinctiveness. Here are eight such unusual structures:
Renowned poet Maya Angelou believed literature possesses a profound 'life-giving power,' essential for self-discovery and understanding the world. Her enduring message, especially relevant today, champions reading as a vital tool for personal growth, empathy, and navigating life's challenges, encouraging deep thought amidst instant information.
10 baby girl names meaning strength, bravery and determination
Selecting a meaningful name for a baby girl is a special way to celebrate qualities that parents hope will guide her throughout life. Names associated with courage, resilience and determination often carry inspiring stories and cultural significance. These names reflect the ability to face challenges with confidence, persevere through difficulties and pursue goals with an unwavering spirit. Here are ten beautiful baby girl names that symbolise strength, bravery and determination.
Getting children to follow simple routines can be difficult sometimes. What many parents do is nag children for little things: to brush their teeth, switch off the TV, or finish homework. Many times, these repeated instructions turn into arguments. Parenting coach Parikshit Jobanputra suggests that the way parents communicate these everyday expectations can make a big difference. According to him, instead of giving children commands, parents should use positive phrases that make children feel involved, motivated and understood. Here are some of the magic words the parenting coach recommends:
Denmark to Germany in 7 minutes under the sea? The upcoming Fehmarnbelt Tunnel could make it happen
A massive 73,000-tonne tunnel element has been successfully placed in the Baltic Sea for the Fehmarnbelt Tunnel, a project set to become the world's longest immersed road and rail tunnel.
A social media visual test claims to reveal how you treat others based on whether you first see a person standing or a larger face. Seeing the person suggests you're an empathetic emotional anchor, while seeing the face indicates a preference for direct honesty and independence. This illusion offers a glimpse into your brain's priorities.
A mother intervened when a stranger publicly shamed her son for normal childhood behavior, emphasizing that mistakes don't define a child's identity. She advocated for respectful correction, highlighting the importance of protecting a child's confidence and self-worth. This incident underscores how adults' words impact children and the need for parents to stand up for their children.
You know what your father did today? For many children, this simple sentence becomes the beginning of a burden they were never meant to carry. It often starts innocently. A mother vents after an argument or a father complains about feeling unappreciated. Most parents don't do this on purpose. It's not malicious, rather it's exhaustion. But what parents do not realise is that kids cannot process emotional stuff the way adults can. They may sit quietly and nod but cannot offer solutions. They can only absorb the emotions being placed on them. And sometimes, they carry those emotions for years.Here are five hidden ways children can be affected when they become the emotional dumping ground for their parents' marital struggles.They feel responsible for fixing problems they cannot solveKids want their parents to be happy. It's almost wired into them. So the moment a child starts hearing about marital troubles on repeat, something shifts. They start trying to help. Behaving extra well. Being the easy kid so there's one less thing to fight about. Sometimes even quietly trying to play peacemaker between two people who are, let's be honest, struggling to make peace with each other. And here's the cruel part: they're trying to solve something even the adults can't sort out. So they just keep trying. And keep failing. And keep feeling like it's somehow on them.They start living with anxiety about the futureOnce a kid starts hearing about the fights, the silences, the tension their mind doesn't just switch off after the conversation ends. Are they going to split up? Is there going to be another fight tonight? Is something actually wrong with our family? They probably never say any of this out loud. But it sits there, in the back of their head, for months. Sometimes years. And when home starts to feel unpredictable, kids carry around this quiet anxiety that they can't always explain, even to themselves.They get trapped between the two people they love mostThink about how impossible this is. One parent vents about the other. Again and again. And slowly, without anyone saying it outright, the child starts to feel like they're supposed to pick a side. Except both sides are their parents. People they love equally, unconditionally, without question. So now what? If they comfort one parent, they feel like they're betraying the other. If they stay neutral, they feel like they're letting someone down anyway. There's no right answer. There's no way to win. And no kid should ever have to feel like loving both their parents is somehow a problem.It shapes how they view relationships later in lifeHere's something most parents don't think about: kids learn what relationships are supposed to look like by watching theirs. That's it. That's the blueprint they get.So if what they grew up hearing was criticism, resentment, unresolved fights, constant low-level tension that becomes their baseline for what ormal looks like. Some grow up scared of getting too close to anyone. Some struggle to trust partners, always half-expecting things to fall apart. Others panic at the smallest disagreement in their own relationships, because somewhere deep down, conflict still feels like the beginning of the end.It doesn't show up immediately. It shows up later in relationships their parents will probably never even see.They may eventually resent the parent who oversharedIn the moment, a parent confiding in their child can feel like closeness. Like trust. Like we're a team. But kids grow up. And with that growing up comes perspective. A lot of adults look back and realise: I was a child. That wasn't my load to carry. And instead of remembering those conversations as bonding moments, they remember them as something heavier. Something unfair. What once felt like being let in often gets reframed, years later, as being burdened.So what's the alternative?Look, needing to vent isn't the problem. Every parent going through a rough patch needs somewhere to put that. The issue isn't that you need support. It's who you're directing it at. Call a friend. Talk to your sibling, your own parent, a cousin who gets it. Find a therapist if you can. Even a few sessions can help more than people expect.So next time you're about to tell your child everything that went wrong today, just pause for a second and ask yourself: am I telling them this because it'll help them? Or because I need someone to talk to? If it's the second one, and honestly, most of the time it is, they're not the right person for this.
Best national parks in Karnataka: 8 wildlife destinations for tiger safari and birdwatching
Karnataka is counted among Indias star wildlife destinations. The state is all about dense Western Ghats, forests, hills and river ecosystems. The national parks here are home to iconic species such as tigers, Asian elephants and leopards along with hundreds of bird species.
Will Rogers' famous quote, Good judgment comes from experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment, highlights that wisdom is acquired through mistakes. This perspective emphasizes that failures are not endpoints but crucial learning opportunities, fostering humility and continuous personal growth. Embracing errors as part of the journey leads to better decision-making and eventual success.
Hyderabads newest attraction: Walk on Mars, enter a black hole
Hyderabad has never been short of entertainment options, but a new attraction at Prasads IMAX is giving visitors a chance to step into entirely different worlds. From walking on the surface of Mars to venturing into a mysterious black hole, Zevixo Realm promises an immersive experience that feels straight out of a science-fiction film. Located Get the latest updates in Hyderabad City News , Technology , Entertainment , Sports , Politics and Top Stories on WhatsApp & Telegram by subscribing to our channels. You can also download our app for Android and iOS .
Discover Kakanmath Temple, an 11th-century marvel in Madhya Pradesh. Local legends claim ghosts built this Shiva temple overnight. Historians attribute its construction to the Kachchhapaghata dynasty. The temple stands as an engineering feat, built with massive stone blocks without mortar. It offers a peaceful, uncrowded experience for travellers and photographers.
Diljit Dosanjh's homes exude an understated old-money charm, blending comfort with character across his various properties. His decor choices, like rustic typography art, velvet sofas, Victorian chandeliers, and plant-lined wooden staircases, create warm, inviting, and sophisticated living spaces that reflect his grounded yet luxurious taste.
The UK government has revealed it would ban social media for anyone under 16. The ban would go into place early 2027.The ban would take effect in early 2027. Prime Minister Keir Starmer has described the move as the right step for Britain. It would apply to major platforms including Instagram, Facebook, X, Snapchat, TikTok and YouTube. The UK would also not be alone, joining a growing number of countries hardening their own limits or imposing age restrictions on the growing social media problem. These five countries have already introduced these kinds of restrictions:AustraliaIn November 2025, became the first country to 100% ban under-16s from holding social media accounts. The new law forces tech companies to verify users' ages and block accounts belonging to minors. It was the result of years of growing concern about the effect of social media on cyberbullying, online harassment, body images and the addictive nature of social media algorithms. Supporters hailed the ban as one of the most effective digital child protection laws ever introduced.IndonesiaIndonesia made headlines across Asia when it announced a ban on social media use for children under 16 in March 2026. The move came after growing concerns about online addiction, cyberbullying, exposure to harmful content and the amount of time children were spending on digital platforms. According to various media reports, the regulation applies to around 70 million under-16s, the government said, who make up 25% of Indonesia's 280 million population.MalaysiaMalaysia in early June began enforcing rules barring millions of children younger than 16 from having social media accounts. Social media platforms with at least 8 million users in Malaysia, including Facebook, Instagram, TikTok and YouTube, must implement age-verification systems and block users under 16 from creating accounts. Users identified as under 16 have a month to download or transfer data, including photos and videos, before restrictions or other actions are applied. Companies that fail to comply could face penalties of up to 10 million ringgit (2.5 million U.S. dollars). Parents whose children manage to bypass the law will not be penalized.FranceFrance chose a different approach back in July 2023. Rather than an outright ban, the country passed a law that requires parental approval for any child under 15 to be on social media. However, technical challenges have since affected its enforcement. Meanwhile, President Emmanuel Macron is hoping France will become one of the first European Union countries to ban social media for under-15s, following similar moves in Australia and Indonesia. This is amid growing evidence linking excessive social media use to anxiety, poor sleep and declining mental wellbeing among teenagers.ChinaChina has taken one of the toughest approaches to children's digital use. Authorities introduced restrictions on screen time, gaming hours and online content for minors. The Cyberspace Administration of China (CAC) has also asked technology firms to enforce a stringent Minor Mode. When the Feature is on, these operating systems and apps automatically enforce daily usage limits (e.g. 40 minutes for young teens) and block internet access between 10pm and 6am.The aim, according to Chinese authorities, is to reduce internet addiction and encourage healthier routines among young people.Why parents around the world are paying attentionThe increased call for restrictions comes from a common concern. Interviews across many countries have found that excessive social media use is associated with growing levels of anxiety, isolation, disruptions to sleep, cyberbullying and low self-esteem among young people. Yet social media isnt all bad. It also helps children learn, express themselves creatively and stay connected to friends. That is why many experts insist the main challenge is not banning technology, but finding the right balance.
Healthy ageing is not built on dramatic lifestyle changes. It often comes down to small, consistent habits that support mobility, balance, sleep, breathing, and overall wellbeing. Experts believe that combining simple yoga practices with mindful living can help people maintain strength and independence as they grow older. Here are five easy daily yoga habits that can make a meaningful difference over time.
Barcelona star Lamine Yamal has publicly confirmed his relationship with 21-year-old Seville influencer Ins Garca. The couple made a notable appearance at a club celebration, solidifying rumors that began after they were seen together on holiday. Garca, a fashion and lifestyle content creator, has navigated the increased attention with discretion.
Rani Mukerji shared insights into modern motherhood, noting her Generation Alpha daughter Adira's confidence and expectation to be heard. Mukerji highlighted a shift from fear-based discipline to a parent-child dynamic emphasizing emotional authenticity, listening, and presence over authority. This reflects a broader cultural reset in parenting, moving towards negotiation and understanding.
5 things children often hide and why parents need to know these immediately
As parents, one of the biggest concerns many of us have is the safety of our children. While we ensure our children are safe and sound when they are with us, its not possible to always be around them. There are times when children hide things from parents, not out of fear, but out of not concerning their parents. But this silence can sometimes lead to life-threatening problems. Why children hide things from parentsChildren dont keep secrets because they want to hide something wrong they did. Sometimes, they stay quiet because they dont want to worry their parents, they fear getting scolded, or simply dont understand the seriousness of the situation. This makes it all the more important for parents to make children confident enough to turn towards them when something feels wrong. Five situations children should never hide from their parents If a cat or dog scratches or bites themChildren feel connected to animals. They naturally want to play with pets or stray animals. While most of these interactions are harmless, scratches or bites from cats and dogs should never be ignored. A child may hide these, thinking, Its just a small scratch, but even tiny wounds from animal bites or scratches can cause infections and health issues. If a stranger approached themStranger safety is one of the most important conversations parents can have with children. Sometimes children imagine strangers as scary-looking people, but unsafe situations can involve anyone. Parents must tell their children to report if they were approached by a stranger or if they ate something given to them.If they got hurt on their head while playing Children run, climb, jump, and explore, and small accidents are a normal part of growing up. But head injuries should always be taken seriously. Sometimes children hide injuries because they fear they will be stopped from playing, or they think the pain will go away on its own. Parents should tell children to inform them if they hit their head or suffer a fall or accident, even a minor one. If anyone is bullying them or scaring themBullying is not always obvious. It may include teasing, name-calling, exclusion, threats, physical harm, or repeated actions that make a child feel unsafe. Parents need to regularly remind children that being bullied is never something they have to handle. Children should know that asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.If they faced something bad on the internetThe digital world has become a big part of childrens lives. Along with learning, entertainment, and connection, the internet can also expose children to content they are not ready to handle. A child may accidentally see something disturbing, receive an inappropriate message, or be contacted by someone online. Many children hide it because they think they will lose screen privileges or get blamed. Parents should make one thing clear: If something online scares you, confuses you, or feels wrong, come to me. You will not get in trouble for telling me.How parents can encourage children to speak openly What parents need to understand is that children dont need lectures, what they need is reassurance. The way parents respond in difficult moments determines whether children will come forward again in the future. When children know they will be heard instead of judged, they are more likely to share uncomfortable situations early.
Personality test: Pick an image and see how you instantly react under pressure
Discover your immediate reaction to high-pressure situations through a simple visual test. The article presents four images, each revealing a distinct personality trait. Whether you're a self-reliant protector of inner peace, a strategist who needs space, a logical analyzer, or an empathetic connector, your first choice offers a fascinating glimpse into your innate response to stress.
7 most expensive streets to buy a home in the world in 2026
Luxury real estate derives its prestige not only from the property itself but also from its location. Around the world, a few selected streets and communities have developed a reputation as homes for billionaires and celebrities.
Meet Mi: The 'world's most beautiful' baby monkey who is winning hearts at a Japanese zoo
A baby red-shanked douc langur named Mi is captivating visitors at Yokohama Zoological Gardens Zoorasia in Japan. Born in January, Mi has emerged from its initial months close to its parents, now charming crowds with its striking, colorful coat and playful demeanor. This endangered species, native to Southeast Asia, is known for its unique beauty and specialized diet.
