The Times of India

When your child says I cant do it, avoid saying You can; Psychologist explains what to say instead

Parents often say 'You can do it' to encourage children facing challenges. Psychologist Annie Simpson suggests this phrase can dismiss a child's feelings and create conflict. Instead, phrases like 'Not yet' and 'What's the first tiny piece' foster a growth mindset. These responses acknowledge emotions and guide children toward manageable actions. This approach helps build lasting resilience and confidence in young learners.