The Times of India

Why toxic people feel so familiar to you: 5 psychology-backed reasons that may surprise you

It's confusing, isn't it? You meet someone who treats you poorly, makes you feel small, or creates chaos in your life, and yet something about them feels familiar. Not comforting, not safe but familiar. Psychology teaches us that toxic people often seem strangely familiar, not because theyre good for us but because they may be echoing patterns weve seen before. That sense of familiarity doesnt mean theyre good for you. It means your brain recognises the pattern, even if that pattern is toxic. Here are some reasons for it: